P-spot Book Your How-to Guide on Prostate Massage and Prostate Milking

January 30, 2013

Our Book Has Arrived!

Filed under: Book News — Tags: , — Charlie @ 11:03 am

I’m thrilled to announce that The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure has arrived!

After talking with over 200 men and their partners, asking urologists and medical experts for feedback, finding the best tips and toys for prostate fun, and more conversation about how to describe the many techniques we  heard about, Aislinn and I are incredibly excited and proud to see our book in print. The folks at Cleis Press have all been amazing to work with- their input and suggestions helped us write a remarkable book. You can pick up your own copy at sex-positive toy stores like Good Vibrations, as well as Amazon.com.

We’re both looking forward to the launch parties on January 31 at Good Vibrations Valencia St. and February 6 at Good Vibrations Oakland. After that, we’ll be traveling across the country, giving workshops and helping more people discover how much fun prostate play can be! Here are some of our upcoming events:

Feb 10: Pegging at Good Vibrations Brookline MA

Feb 10: Hitting the Spot: Prostate Play & G-spot Pleasure at the Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health, Pawtucket RI

Feb 28 The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure at SheBop, Portland, OR

March 3 The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure at Babeland Seattle

March 18 The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure at Sugar, Baltimore MD

March 26 Pegging 101 at the SF Citadel, San Francisco

We’ll also be doing a special event at Catalyst in March and we’re planning more workshops and signings in Seattle, LA, San Diego, Las Vegas, and then across the US! Follow us on twitter or facebook to keep up on all of our travels!

And if you want to find some excellent toys for prostate play, check out our sponsors: Good Vibrations, Aneros, SpareParts HardWear, Wet Lubricants, and Vixen Creations. If you’re looking for an amazing ride, these are the folks who have the goodies to put a smile on your face.

Wish us luck as we get our tour on the road and be sure to come say hi when we’re in your town!

Charlie

Charlie

I'm a writer, blogger, teacher, workshop facilitator, sex & relationship coach, and a certified somatic sex educator. I teach workshops and seminars on many different sexuality topics, including sex-positivity, sex & shame, communities of erotic affiliation, many different sexual practices, gender & masculinity, and sexual politics. Contact me for more information, to arrange a speaking engagement, or to find out how I can help you create an amazing sex life.

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January 19, 2013

Our Interview on Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino

Filed under: Interviews — Tags: , , , , — Charlie @ 10:05 am

If you missed our interview yesterday on Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino, here’s your chance to listen in! We talked about how to ask your partner to try prostate play, some favorite massage techniques, what to do if your sweetie thinks of anal play as domination (and you don’t), our upcoming tour, and much more. We had a great time with Tristan and I know you’ll enjoy hearing it.

Charlie

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I'm a writer, blogger, teacher, workshop facilitator, sex & relationship coach, and a certified somatic sex educator. I teach workshops and seminars on many different sexuality topics, including sex-positivity, sex & shame, communities of erotic affiliation, many different sexual practices, gender & masculinity, and sexual politics. Contact me for more information, to arrange a speaking engagement, or to find out how I can help you create an amazing sex life.

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January 15, 2013

Looking For A Realistic Dildo? Check out VixSkin

Filed under: Toy Reviews — Tags: , , — Charlie @ 8:08 am

Plenty of folks like realistic dildos for their prostate play, and there are lots of options out there. Maybe it’s the extra bit of life-like appearance that makes the fantasy work. Maybe it’s the shape of the head as it slides across the prostate. But when it comes to finding a dildo that looks and feels as much like a penis as possible, you can’t do better than VixSkin dildos from Vixen Creations.

VixSkin is 100% silicone, so just like other silicone toys, it’s easy to clean. Soap and hot water does a great job, and if you want to take it even further, wash it and then put it in boiling water for five minutes or the top rack of a dishwasher. VixSkin is non-porous, body-safe, and hypoallergenic. But what really makes it an amazing material is the texture.

Silicone dildos are made by pouring the liquid silicone into a mold and then pulling them out after it sets. That gives them a consistent texture throughout the entire length of the toy. VixSkin is made the same way, but there’s a firmer inner core that’s then put in a mold for a second time and coated with a softer outer layer. When you squeeze the shaft with your hand, it has a texture much more like a penis than any other dildo on the market. Plus, the head of the toy is almost entirely made from the softer layer, so it has that same squishy feel that penises have. Not only is that more realistic, it’s also more comfortable during deep penetration.

Buck 6″ x 2″

Outlaw 8-½” x 2″

 

VixSkin dildos are more flexible than most other silicone toys. That add some extra realism, and it also makes pegging a little easier since the dildo flexes when you shift positions. A really firm dildo can feel great, but if you’re not at just the right angle, it can poke. That extra bit of bendability can make a big difference.

Another advantage of VixSkin is that the softer texture makes anal penetration easier. If you’re new to anal play, you might find these dildos a great way to start. And if you get turned on by playing with larger toys, VixSkin’s extra give makes them easier to accommodate. Heads up, though- the extra flexibility can make them a little trickier to use in a harness, at least until you get used to it.

The only downside to VixSkin is that silicone lubricants can damage the material. So use a water-based lube or cover your toy with a condom, all the way over the base.

You can get VixSkin in a variety of sizes and colors, though they mostly come in an approximation three different skin tones. The Vixen website offers all of the available choices, and you can get lots of them at stores like Good Vibrations. Because of the extra steps in manufacturing, they do cost a bit more than some other options, but if you want something that looks amazing and feels fantastic, they’re definitely worth it. And even if you don’t care about the realism factor, the texture and the flexibility are major pluses. So pick one up today and see for yourself why these toys truly are “worth every inch.”

Charlie

Charlie

I'm a writer, blogger, teacher, workshop facilitator, sex & relationship coach, and a certified somatic sex educator. I teach workshops and seminars on many different sexuality topics, including sex-positivity, sex & shame, communities of erotic affiliation, many different sexual practices, gender & masculinity, and sexual politics. Contact me for more information, to arrange a speaking engagement, or to find out how I can help you create an amazing sex life.

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